It occurs to me that memory works strangely within dreams. It works strangely after you wake up, too, but I’m talking about how, while you are still in the dream, it is very difficult to remember things accurately. The other night I had a dream in which I remembered a conversation I had had with a friend. While I was remembering, it seemed to feel like any normal memory that I might have while awake. In other words, the experience of remembering was accompanied by the familiar feeling of remembering. When I woke up, I realised that the thing I had remembered had never really happened (unless it had previously happened within a dream). This is interesting due to the importance – at least when we are awake – of being able to rely on this feeling of remembering as an accurate differentiator between memory and imagination.
It seems to me that there may be a disconnection while we are asleep – we can remember bits and pieces from our waking life but we can’t put them together and make sense of them. We can remember people and places, but we get details and associations wrong. In my dream, for example, someone I know well had become bald and overweight and had lost his facial hair. In fact, he had a completely different face and body shape, yet I still knew that it was him and was able to ignore the radical difference in his appearance. It also seemed not to matter that he was in a country that he has never visited or that we were outside my old house which I have not visited since I met him. These aberrations fit with Fosse et al.’s (2003, p. 1) description of aspects from our experience appearing in dreams in isolation and being pieced together in unrecognisable ways.
Studies into how memory works when we are dreaming are more commonly associated with memory consolidation (e.g. Torabi and Zarrindast 2011) than with recall. In a study of almost 300 dream accounts, Fosse et al. (Ibid) found that only a very small proportion (1-2%) satisfied their criteria for relating coherently to identifiable episodic memories (criteria included: confidence of association with a real experience, and appropriate contextual factors such as location, objects and characters). Although this proportion is likely to go up or down in relation to how strict the applied criteria are, their account shows how difficult it is to map dream accounts neatly onto waking memories. This difficulty arises from the substitution of locations, objects and characters within dreams, as well as the often bizarre behaviours and attitudes held by the dreams’ inhabitants. Some of this might be explained by the confounding effects of external stimuli such as alarm clocks or short waking experiences but this doesn’t seem to me to account for the level of surreal plots and features of many dreams.
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To gain a better understanding of how people remember (or seem to remember) within dreams, I’d like to explore the types of within-dream memories that people are having. If you are happy to share your own experiences of within-dream memories, please go to the Within-dream memories project page and leave a comment.
References
- Fosse, M. J., Fosse, R., Hobson, J. A., & Stickgold, R. J. (2003). Dreaming and episodic memory: a functional dissociation? Journal of cognitive neuroscience, 15(1), 1-9. doi:10.1162/089892903321107774
- Torabi, N. M., & Zarrindast, M. (2011). Sleep and Memory Processing: A Solid Relationship. WebmedCentral BRAIN, 2(9).
